I think I figured out what my problem with Mike is. I spend too much time trying to shape him into my dream man than really giving him a chance. Maybe if I look at all he does do instead of what I think he should do we would both be happier and he'd be a little more inclined to change. At least I really hope so. I just don't think that what I want is really so bad or hard to do.
1. Slightly skinny. I'm not asking for a six pack or anything, just a stomach that isn't as big as mine was when I was pregnant.
2. Offer to help with the baby. I don't think I need to ask every time something needs done or ask if he can play with her. I would love a "I know you stay up all night with Melody, let me take her so you can nap".
3. Be a little romantic. Nothing like taking me out somewhere nice, expensive jewelry, or even a walk down the beach(if there was one close by). Just no farting or nose picking. Maybe a little movie night with some cuddling.
4. Not be as rude and controlling. Now this is the big one. Just because something doesn't go how he wants it to go or isn't how he wants it to be doesnt mean he gets to throw a whole hissy fit, change everything so it goes his way, or trash talk.
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